Joining an Autism Community

When my twins Summer and Autumn got diagnosed with Autism, it felt like my world stopped. I instantly had to separate my expectations from my reality, and that came with grieving what I thought motherhood would look like. For clarity, if you're experiencing any form of grief in regards to what this new phase of mothering a child with special needs entails, just be reassured that that is normal.

Joining a community of moms who are on the same or somewhat similar paths has made coping with this life journey easier. I'm able to get advice on anything from resources, emotional support, or things as simple as seeing other children with Autism living with it and thriving. This mom Brunch I attended was so much fun, it was hosted by Kacey Holland and Katrtryce aka The Funny Momma, and it was a real curated situation. Everything from the menu to the assigned seating, the drinks sponsored by Remy Martin, the venue itself, and the gift bags, chef’s kiss! Being a part of an Autism community has been helpful to me through two of the hardest parts of being a special needs mom, which were getting acquainted with IEP meetings, and staying emotionally healthy. 

My journey with motherhood and Autism is pretty unique considering that I have twins who are both diagnosed, and I'm a single mother. I will dive more into these details later, but I just want to make sure I shine a light on how important it is to have a village. Special needs children without saying, clearly need support. Most of the time that support will come from the parents or parent that is raising them day to day.